The In-Between

If you've been asking yourself one too many times: "What am I doing with my life?"

I see you. You're in the right place. Consider this your permission to stop pushing — and start listening.

This is what's going on...

Something shifted. You can feel it, even if you can't quite name it.

Maybe you changed careers. Left a relationship. Moved somewhere new. Or maybe nothing dramatic happened at all — you just woke up one day and realized the version of life you've been living no longer fits you the way it used to.

And now you're stuck in that uncomfortable space in between, where the old chapter is clearly closing but the next one hasn't shown up yet.

This course was created for exactly that feeling. The in-between. That feeling of "Now what?" — which can be both terrifying... and the beginning of everything.

Created by Veerle (Vee) — a certified life coach, podcast host, and someone who has navigated more than one in-between phase and knows this feeling from the inside out.

Vee walking alone down a sunlit countryside path at golden hour
does this sound familiar?

This is the part nobody warns you about

We celebrate the big changes, the brave decisions, the new beginnings. But nobody talks about what happens after. Or what happens when nothing really happens. The part where you're just... in between.

Vee walking through a sunlit courtyard, looking back
  • You have this quiet, unsettling feeling of "Is this it?" and you don't know what to do with it
  • Something feels off but you can't quite name it — like your old version doesn't fit anymore, but you don't know yet what comes next
  • You're exhausted — not from doing too much, but from thinking about it so much
  • You look around and it feels like everyone else has their life under control, which makes you feel like something must be wrong with you
  • You feel almost ungrateful because there are good things in your life, and yet something still feels missing
  • You're searching for answers everywhere and sometimes find a little spark of inspiration, but by the end of the day you're still back to "I don't know"
  • The one thing that might actually help — sitting quietly with yourself — is also the thing that feels most uncomfortable to do
the reframe

You're not stuck. You're in transition...

Did you know that a caterpillar inside its cocoon doesn't just change shape?

It completely dissolves. Crazy cool right?!

And from that dissolution, something even more beautiful emerges. A butterfly ready to spread her wings into the wide world.

That's what this phase is all about.

From the outside, it can look like nothing is happening. But on the inside, everything is shifting. The in-between isn't a detour from your life — it's often exactly what clears the way to the next chapter. The scenic route.

You're not in a limbo. You're in a cocoon towards your becoming.

The course

What you'll experience inside

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Lesson 1

The Pause

Learn why the in-between phase is a natural part of transformation, how to regulate your nervous system, and how to shift into presence so clarity can begin to emerge.

After this lesson, you'll stop fighting this phase and start working with it.

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Lesson 2

The Shedding

Explore the process of releasing outdated roles, identities, beliefs, and patterns that no longer align with who you're becoming. You'll begin creating space for what's next.

After this lesson, you'll feel lighter and less weighed down by the version of yourself you've been trying to hold onto.

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Lesson 3

The Becoming

Reconnect with your future self. The version of you that feels grounded, aligned, and clear. Strengthen your inner guidance and step into your next chapter with more self-trust.

After this lesson, your next chapter won't feel like a question mark anymore. It'll feel like a direction.

Preview Lesson 1

Hear what the course sounds like

30 seconds from The Pause — your first lesson.

Ready for the next chapter?

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Yes — this is for me

Trusted by >2000 students around the world

When clarity replaces confusion

Real words from people who've walked through their own in-between.

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Amy
Palo Alto, CA

Thank you for this course! I have just recently retired after a very long, successful career. I am absolutely not sure who I'm becoming and I appreciate the structure that these sessions provide.

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Tim R
UK
★★★★★

Loved this, thank you for creating and sharing it with the world! A really lovely way to get grounded and aligned with my emerging future self again!

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Julia
★★★★★

Thank you Veerle for being such a grounding and inspiring guide! My next trip begins today and I feel prepared to travel with intention and an open heart.

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Lee
★★★★★

Eye-opening for someone who is still young but feels like I've missed the starting line on life compared to my peers. Exactly what I needed to hear, thank you so much!

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Patti Y
St. Petersburg, FL

I just did the first of the 3 sessions today. I really appreciated the metaphor of the cocoon and the liquid transformation. Powerful imagery. I look forward to the other 2 sessions.

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Ilyas
San Francisco, CA
★★★★★

A very helpful guide on the journey to becoming more fully and freely who I am.

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GN
United Kingdom
★★★★★

Thank you for sharing this course. It has helped me to be more understanding of the in-between and to trust my own process of becoming. ✨🙏

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Jamie M
Goshen, CT
★★★★★

Loved this quick yet meaningful course. It brought me clarity, peace of mind and joy. PS, I love knowing that I am exactly where I need to be, it gives me strength, joy, and peace!

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Jamie M
Goshen, CT

This was perfect for me right now. I have my becoming statement and this brought more clarity for me. I will be revisiting this course whenever I need a reminder. Thanks again 👍❤️

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Sudarshan Shetty
Abu Dhabi, UAE
★★★★★

Thank you for a simple and wonderful course 🙏

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Linda Buckley
Highland Lakes, NJ
★★★★★

Very insightful and useful guidance, thank you 🙏

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Jenny
Marina, CA
★★★★★

This was exactly what I needed during a big transition in my life. Thank you!

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Michelle M
Bend, OR
★★★★★

Thank you! I especially appreciated visiting my future self 🥰

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Cathy
Freeport, ME
★★★★★

Short course with tremendous effect. I wrote down the 4 post-session choices as they all seemed to fit, it was tough to choose. Feeling more confident that this in-between will evolve to my next version in good time.

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Heather
★★★★★

Such simple, short sessions — and yet they are so profound, I listen again and again.

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Cerrie Gleason
Phoenix, AZ
★★★★★

The perfect course to give meaning to the pause we all need to experience as we are making shifts and changes to get ourselves ready for what is next in our life. So helpful and meaningful.

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Caroline Chiang
★★★★★

This meant so much to me today. It was short enough to digest but long enough to have rich content.

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Carla Garza
Valencia, Spain
★★★★★

Gracias, gracias, gracias.

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Cristina Pamplona Meireles
Portugal
★★★★★

Very enlightening.

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I found this easy for me to connect with. The tone, speed, music, and teacher's voice took me to a place of calm and allowed me to visualize how I want to feel today.

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Jenn V
★★★★★

Great quick lessons to learn to be your authentic self. ❤️ Thank you! 🙏

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Tim Roderick
Forest of Dean, UK
★★★★★

Loved this, thank you for creating and sharing it with the world! A really lovely way to get grounded and aligned with my emerging future self again 🙏✨🤍🪴

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Andrew
Norfolk, England
★★★★★

Really useful course. Short, simple and clearly explained.

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Elizabeth Sheppard
Bowling Green, KY
★★★★★

This was a valuable course. I highly recommend it! Many thanks.

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Libby
Connecticut
★★★★★

Excellent! I will be repeating this course. It was so helpful.

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Monique Fisher
★★★★★

Excellent short visualizations help bring concepts depth and understanding. Will be listening to this again to deepen practice.

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Daniela Finocchiaro
★★★★★

A wonderful thought provoking and enlightening short course, I really connected to it! 🤍

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Tanya P
Guelph, Ontario
★★★★★

Quick, helpful, and inspirational. Thank you!

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Kay Beaulieu
★★★★★

This is exactly what I needed to hear at this time in my life. I will be retiring from my current job in four weeks. I want to find my new chapter in life. This meditation has really helped.

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Carrie Peralta-Brummett
Orange County, CA
★★★★★

Excellent! Very inspiring. I'll relisten again to absorb even more. Thank you.

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Cathy Blake
★★★★★

This was a wonderful reflection.

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Jules
London, UK
★★★★★

Very helpful. Thank you so much for your insights. I will listen again 💗🌸

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Lori
Florida, USA
★★★★★

I will return to this and listen again and again. Thank you.

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Kim Owen
★★★★★

This wonderful brief set of prompts and supportive guidance makes the personal growth process sensible and accessible.

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Veerle (Vee) Beelen Da Costa David
about

Created by someone who's been in your shoes...

Hi, I'm Veerle — most people call me Vee.

I'm a certified life coach, meditation teacher with over 25k listeners, podcast host, published author, and founder of UnpackbyVeer.

I've lived across 5 countries and navigated more than one in-between phase — career shifts, identity crises, breakups, moves that changed everything. I know this feeling from the inside out: the restlessness, the uncertainty, the "WTF is happening (or not happening)?"

And I also know that if you just keep pushing yourself to find the answers, it only gets harder to hear them. Because clarity doesn't come from doing more. It comes from finally giving yourself permission to stop — and listen.

That's why I created this course.

This is for you if...

  • You're going through a life transition — a career shift, a move, a loss, a breakup, or a chapter that no longer fits and you don't know what's next
  • You feel disconnected from your old identity or your old life
  • You're questioning what's next
  • You feel like you're in an in-between phase

This is not for you if...

  • You want quick-fix motivation
  • You want someone to make decisions for you
  • You're looking for a guru (I'm not that person)
  • You don't want to reflect inwards
  • You don't want to change anything
  • You don't have 15 minutes a day for yourself — and don't want to make that time
practical details

Frequently asked questions

Everything you need to know before you get started.

No. This course combines coaching tools, nervous system support, embodiment practices, and reflective exercises. It's designed for personal growth, not as a replacement for therapy.
Not at all. The in-between doesn't have a specific entry requirement. Whether you've gone through a career change, a breakup, a move, retirement, a loss — or simply that quiet feeling that your old chapter is ending and the new one hasn't arrived yet — this course is for you.
This course includes 3 days of audio-based lessons plus guided exercises, journaling prompts and additional resources to support you, plus a bonus integration day. You can complete it in a few days with 15 minutes per day, and revisit it again over different chapters of your life.
That's exactly who this course is for. The goal is not to force answers, but to reconnect with yourself so clarity can emerge naturally.
Not at all. The practices are accessible, grounding, and beginner-friendly.
You'll receive an email with your log in details for immediate access to the course platform — including the audio lessons, journaling prompts, guided visualisations, and embodiment exercises. You can revisit the course any time, you have lifetime access.
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